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How You May Be Self Sabotaging Your Chances Of Love Without Even Realizing It
It isn’t that you aren’t worth it or that you aren’t going to find it, but the law of attraction might work a little differently than you think.
What we put out into the universe, we oftentimes find returns to us at a later date, only in its own form. The same can be said about the dating world and not that this implies that the traumatic events of your past relationships were warranted, but if you have begun to notice a pattern in many of your relationships, there may be a reason as to why.
‘Closure’ isn’t a figment of the imagination, but it is necessary in many cases in order to move past a relationship. A lot of us; however, have a relationship or two that never really got much of that. These are the loose ends that bind together with the glue of your own thought that are later characterized as the insecurities in your next relationship. The reasons for a breakup vary greatly so as you can imagine, the spectrum of forms that these insecurities begin to fill, vary as well.
Take cheating for instance. If your last partner broke your trust and ultimately made your relationship impossible to work, then the potential for residual impact is raging. You will need some…
